Having a hard time? You might need this today


  1. Time doesn’t wait for you, take every chance you can.

–Act now. Start now,’ika nga, “wag ng ipagpabukas ang mga bagay kung pwede naming gawin na ngayon.” Take every opportunity as a challenge, take every chances and don’t be afraid. Take actions. Walang mangyayari sayo kung tutunganga ka lang. Act on your age. Act on your own.  Palakasan na nga lang daw ng loob yan. Just believe in yourself, YOU can do it.  I believe in you.

2. Your friendship will fall apart, so prioritize the people who matter to you.

–there is no perfect relationship, I know that and I know you know that too, hindi lahat ng tao permanente sa buhay mo. May mga aalis talaga sa buhay mo. I’m telling you this, kasi this is the real truth. My point is, It’s a matter of balancing. Hindi pwedeng work ka lang ng work. Hindi pwedeng gimik lang ng gimik. Every relationship needs quality time. Give time for yourself. Give time for your family and friends.  Learn to give importance sa mga taong nandyan lagi para sayo like your family, and don’t you ever take them for granted. Priority nga!

3. No one else controls you, always remember that.

–yes!, it’s your own life. You shouldn’t make someone dictate you especially if you’re already on your age. You have the freedom for yourself. You’re not anyone’s slave. You have to make your own decisions. Decide for your own and be happy and be responsible with it. Be yourself! Wag kang papaapekto lagi sa mga negative comments na naririnig mo sa ibang taong nakapaligid sayo dahil ikaw lang ang totoong nakakakilala sa sarili mo. They do not know your story, wag mo nalang silang pansinin. Wag kang ma-pepressure, enjoy and savor every moment of your life.

4. Stop being bitter about the past and move on, misery only aids miserable.

–hmm, tigilan mo ng pag-so-stalk sa girlfriend ng ex mo  or sa ex mo mismo, hahaha, choss, dejoooke lang. Hayaan mo sya, hindi sila kawalan, maraming tao sa mundo! Wag kang manghinayang. Sila dapat ang manghinayang sayo.

Hayy, move on na! wag mo ng pahirapan ang sarili mo, please lang! Be happy for them, be happy for yourself.  You know what? Pamper yourself kahit sandali lang. Treat yourself and make yourself whole again? Kumain ka sa paborito mong resto, fastfood. KUMAIN KA! Wag mo lang sobrahan! Magpa-hairdo ka? Magpa-salon? Magpa-Spa? Basta gawin mo ng gusto mo  , Inhale the good vibes and exhale the bad vibes. Thanked God for all the blessings and be happy.

And yes, matuto ka sa nangyari  at wag mo ng hayaang malagay sa miserableng sitwasyon. Makulay ang mundo at ang buhay! Sayang ang pagkakataon. Sayang ang buhay.

5. Remember little details about everyone, their smile when you mention them is an amazing reward.

–Wag maging super self-centered and self-absorbed ha yung sakto lang naman ang kelangan ih.  Learn to appreciate other people din, syempre wag naman yung pakitang tao at kaplastikan, okidokiie? . Learn to say thank you. Wag madamot sa smile!   Give it to everyone. Give it every day to every people you meet. Good vibes all the way! Maliit na bagay pero Malaki ang impact nyan sa mga taong nasasalubong mo everyday na iba-iba ang kwento at pinagdadaanan sa buhay tulad mo. Aminin mo, it such a very amazing feeling pag nakakatanggap ka ng ‘Thank you” , “God bless you”  at syempre yung simple pero napakasincere na ngiti from other people. Actually, minsan sa mga ngiting yun, buo na ang araw mo. So SMILE para humaba ang buhay! Good vibes lang tayo. Pagaanin ang buhay!

6. It might be tough, but it’s okay to let people go.

–It’s super hard to let people go, *kaway *kaway sa mga alam ang feeling na ‘to.!

“Masakit! Di ko kaya pag wala ka!” Yung  mga ganerns, wag kayong makornihan, kasi totoo talaga yan! Ang hirap pakawalan kasi mahal natin sila. I’m not only talking about relationship having a fall-out, I’m also talking about our loved ones who passed away. Diba? Super sakit? Pero wala tayong magagawa, but to just let them go, and accept the truth na hindi na natin sila makakasama ever. And we all have to do is to put them always in our heart and to treasure those memories with them. It’s okay. Be okay.

  1. Everything is God’s plan and that’s life.

–You believe in God. You believe His words. You believe His plans. You believe His ways. You trust Him with all your heart. And that is the life I’m talking about.

–bia

God bless us! :*

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